REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD SAY NO TO SUICIDE

Should I take pills, hug the transformer, or just pull the trigger?

Should I swim, sink or simply Disappear?

 

Should I use the Knife, rope, or just jump down from the high place? 

Everyone hates me, but I am human. 

You say you don't want to loose me but you don't care. 

I wake up each day to battle with the same taunting demons that left me crying the previous night.

I cry everyday to ease my pain yet there's no escape from this illness. 

Hear the blood that beats in my veins, hear my cry beyond the incantation of silenced rivers. 

I am calm on the outside yet I'm seriously paddling underneath just so I could float on the top like a duck. 

My mirror is my best friend because it never laughs when I cry. 

It's hard to try being someone that I'm not when at all I don't know who really I am.

Psychologically I'm disabled. Distorted. 

Emotionally drained. An empty street.

Spiritually stressed. Exhausted. 

Socially rejected. Despised. Isolated. 

But Physically I smile, tired of smiling. Fake smiles. 

I walk in shadows, Paradox of life. 

Those voices are in crescendo, I've Bowed to ancestors already,.

I've Connected with the dark realms, I've traced the horrible path.

 Deeper, Deeper and Deeper I sink each day. 

Someday I'll leave and never come back.

I pray for safe journey to my destination. It's too late to say sorry. 

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These are the thoughts from a downhearted spirit, 

The feelings from A confused mind, 

The conclusion from A dying being.

He/She cries in the shower so no one could hear, 

Human waits for everyone to fall asleep so he can fall apart, 

Dark moments, Deep thoughts. 

The Tears flow quietly, gently and soft. 

But Hello Determined Soul,

Life is a game with snakes on every level,

You have endured and survived, you are strong,

I would hate to see you give up.

The moment you think of Giving up, 

Think of the reason you held on so long. 

You have the power to say

"This is not how my story will end "

Reality is a prison, Don't give up. 

Getting bad after you've been so happy is literally not good,

Bite back your thunder 

Don't let wild things show 

You're not the left over, 

You are not the "Why are you even here? "

You are just good enough. 

You are stronger than what you think. 

Life is unpredictable 

It changes with seasons

Spring is coming, 

And with it, Brand new leaves. 

Heal the past, 

Live the present, 

Dream the future. 

Dare to stay alive. 

N/B: Suicide is on the increase, it's coming closer than expected. It is not a fashion statement. God'll help us.

#Say_No_To_Suicide ❌

#Say_No_To_Self_Harm❌

#SAY_YES_To_LIFE ☑️☑️

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FaceApp Causes Wahala

This trending app "FaceApp" has really caused a lot of fights and wars in this group. Because of this "app" a sister whose personality I liked so much abused a fellow sister of being "a fake regular pioneer carrying a peeled bag and an old umbrella deceiving herself all in the name of pioneering."

I am not judging either but I mentioned that to exaggerate how far dispute this "FaceApp" had caused just few days ago.

Had it been members of this group remember these three (3) things,  They wouldn't have been this feud.

1. SPIRITUALITY: Since we  all come different races, ethnics, tribes and background, our spiritual growth will and can never be the same. According to Jesus' illustration, We will have spiritual growth as follows:- 30%, 60%, and 100%.

We have brothers and sisters in such categories respectively. A Brother/Sister that is in 30% can never view things the way a brother/sister in 60%. And when a brother/sister in 100% views something differently from those of 30% and 60%, The both will now condemn him or her as "over-righteous" 😂😂😂😂


Do you now see the common understanding?? If you know that a certain brother or sister does not view things the way you view please don't condemn. Instead of addressing him or her as overly righteous or spiritually weak, why not assume that maybe he or she is in 30% or 60% or perhaps even in 100% category?? 😀😀😀

2. CONSCIENCE: This is another area of concern that's closely related to the first point. For the fact that your  Conscience does not allow you to drink alcohol does not mean you should impose it on others, however the Bible doesn't condemn alcohol. 😂😂😂

Similarly, The fact that your conscience does not allow you to use "FaceApp" please don't impose your conscience on others. It's true you have a restrictive conscience but please don't judge others and you with a less restrictive conscience don't condemn. Remember this in the first point (If you know that a certain brother or sister does not view things the way you view please don't condemn. Instead of addressing him or her as overly righteous or spiritually weak, why not assume that maybe he or she is in 30% or 60% or perhaps even in 100% category?? 😀😀😀)

How can you know if a brother or sister is over-righteous? This happens when His or Her righteousness passes  above 100%.

Do you want to know when the righteousness passes 100%??? Please mind your business!!  Leave that one for Jehovah to examine. 😀😀😀

Nobody should ask me which category  of spiritual growth that I belong ooo... I'm having headache 😂😂😂😂

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A Well-Bred Man—What Does It Involve?

A WELL-BRED MAN 

1.0 A man with good home training is polite, He shows respect and concern for the feelings of others. 

2.0 He respects his Elders.

3.0 He speaks the truth at all times. 

4.0 He shows self-restraint while eating or drinking among other people, he does not shout or fight for food or drink, He waits patiently for his turn. 

5.0.1 He eats like a responsible person in a restaurant or in any occasion, He doesn't lick the plate with his tongue or fingers, neither does he crush the bones of meat so loud in a way that attracts people's attention.

5.0.2 He doesn't cross or raise his hands over other people's food on the table.

6.0 He shows good manners in responding to the calls of Nature, he does not yawn like an animal keeping his mouth wide open and looking at you, neither does he cough or sneeze into your face or into the food he is serving, He turns away his face or closes it with his handkerchief. 

7.0 He uses his handkerchief also and not his finger to clean his eyes or nose especially when there is a second person, he does not blow his nose carelessly in the presence of people or into the sink, He uses tissue papers or handkerchief for all that.

8.0 If he is leaving his company he says "Excuse me Gentlemen " or "Ladies " as the case may be. 

 9.0 While in a meeting he shows civility and obedience; While speaking there, if the chairman declares his speech out of order and asks him to stop, he agrees. 

10.0 In shopping or other business transactions, he tries to observe the Rule of "First come First served". 

11.0 In his employment he tries to be punctual, hardworking and conscientious. He shows human sympathy to all his clients. 

12.0 In a narrow passage, if inadvertently anybody gives way to him, He says "Thank you ". And if inadvertently he bars anybody's way or touches him he says "Sorry ".

13.0 In the Bus he gives seat to sick persons, pregnant women Or elderly people.  

14.0 He keeps his surroundings clean and neat at all times. 

15.0 If a person who does not understand his language joins his company, he speaks in a language that all can understand. 

16.0 When he plays his record or cassette or watches his television, he makes the sound low or moderate for the sake of his neighbors. 

17.0 He is satisfied with his partner in a relationship. He doesn't go hunting for valley girls and bimbs.

N/B: THIS APPLIES TO BOTH MEN AND WOMEN. 

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